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Writer's pictureGinger Rae

Understanding the Stages of an Assault

Updated: Dec 9


Stalker following woman in parking garage

The stages of an assault generally follow a predictable pattern that can help people recognize and, ideally, avoid dangerous situations before they escalate. Here are the main stages:


Target Selection:

  • The potential aggressor chooses a target based on perceived vulnerability. They may look for someone who appears distracted, isolated, or less likely to put up a strong defense.

  • Often, people who appear unsure, distracted, or carrying valuables in a visible way can inadvertently draw attention as targets.


Man testing boundaries with female

Testing Boundaries:

  • This stage involves the aggressor subtly testing the target to gauge their reaction. It could include staring, following, standing too close, or making unwanted conversation.

  • The purpose is to see how the target responds—whether they establish boundaries, move away, or seem uncomfortable. Assertive responses can sometimes deter the potential aggressor.


Approach:

  • If the aggressor perceives the target as suitable, they’ll move closer to initiate the assault. This could be done suddenly or slowly, depending on the situation and the aggressor’s intentions.

  • Some aggressors might try to disarm the target’s defenses by acting friendly or using deceptive behavior to make the person feel at ease.


Verbal Engagement:

  • Verbal engagement often involves intimidation or manipulation. The aggressor may attempt to gain control over the target by threatening them or trying to confuse or overwhelm them verbally.

  • This is sometimes a moment where the aggressor tries to establish dominance or frighten the target into submission.


    Man about to attack a woman


Physical Assault:

  • This is the actual moment of attack, which can vary in nature and severity. It may involve grabbing, striking, restraining, or any other form of physical harm or coercion.

  • The aggressor may attempt to prevent the target from calling for help or escaping, depending on the nature of the assault.


Resolution or Escape:

  • The assault either ends when the aggressor feels they’ve achieved their objective or if the target successfully escapes or deters the aggressor. Sometimes, an assault may end when the aggressor senses they’re at risk of being caught.

  • The target’s ability to get away safely, seek help, or de-escalate the situation can be critical to their safety.


Each stage presents potential points for avoidance, de-escalation, or self-defense, depending on the circumstances. Recognizing these stages early on—especially in the target selection and boundary-testing phases—can be crucial for preventing an assault from escalating.


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